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| Passionate Fan ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Joined: Jan 2000
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| Catholic probe to look at gays in seminaries This just in from Reuters -- an article just published in the NY Times. Quote:
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| Master Fan ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Joined: Sep 2004
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| I think its a good thing that they are looking. But you are right being gay does not make you a child molester, they should be looking at all of the men in the seminaries. __________________ If the meaning of your marriage can be cheapened by the marriage of two men, how much could it have been worth to begin with? | |||
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| And how exactly does one test for homosexuality? Is there some kind of detector? Like at an airport? Do they have to pass some kind of test? Help me out here, because I really would like to know exactly HOW they plan on doing this? Having them followed? Bugged? I get the backround check part, that should be done regardless. __________________ | |||
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| This whole "evidence of homosexuality" seems a little fishy....what do they mean? Catching someone in the act or just "suspecting" it? Maybe if they would just let priests get married, they wouldn't start doing deviant things to satisfy their sexual desires. I'm not saying that married men never molest children, but I am sure that if someone had a sexual relationship with a wife, they might never even begin to think of deviant things like child molesting. I mean you don't hear about rampant child abuse/molest cases in any other denomiation (not to say it doesn't happen, but clearly not as widespread), and I believe Catholicism is the only mainstream deonmination that doesn't allow clergy to marry. | |||
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I think that the way the Church used to screen applicants to become priests may have more to do with the problems that are surfacing now than anything else. Thing is, they DIDN'T screen for psychological normalacy (by "normal", I don't mean straight vs. gay, I mean "healthily aware and adjusted to one's sexuality no matter what it is"), just for a "religious vocation", and ended up with a lot of guys who were at best shockingly immature regarding their sexuality. Think about it -- most of the cases of child sexual abuse that are coming to light now have to do with older priests. Celibacy can be a strong and healthy state, providing that the individual practicing it knows exactly what it is, what they're giving up, what the strains and stresses might be. Which is something they used to not teach. I think they're better now. I know that to enter a convent you get to do fun things like take the MMPI multiple times, and I suspect that young men entering the seminary do the same. The thing is, homosexual men are likely to be drawn to the priesthood, not because they see it as a sexual buffet, but because they are men who are more comfortable living with other men. It doesn't mean that they're going to act out sexually, any more than straight priests are going to go looking for a convenient nun to have tumble with. I have no idea where the Pope thinks U.S. priests are going to come from if they weed out all of the gay men. I think he's in for a very ugly shock. __________________ Because the danger is on the right! Proud to be a card-carrying member of the ACLU. | |||
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| Ultimate Fan ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | The thing is, in the Catholic church, priests should be neither straight or gay, they should be asexual, for, while they may have a sexual preference, since they should never engage in sexual activities, it shouldn't matter. There are too many cases of child sexual abuse outside the church to say that molestation is caused by the vow of celibacy. I think that priests should have psychological evaluations, however, whether or not they are allowed to marry should not be an issue. While humans are sexual creatures it is an urge that can be supressed if you really want to do so. Many priests do, many are good, loving, kind people, but those that are not have given a false stereotype for the rest. __________________ Real Gamers Wear Pink "There is nothing to writing. All you do is sit down at a typewriter and bleed." — Ernest Hemingway | |||
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| There is no way a priest can be asexual, because human beings are sexual. You can be celibate, you can practice chastity, without denying that yes, you are a sexual being. To know that one is a sexual being and to have a mature understanding of that fact doesn't mean you have to act on it, all it does is give you the resources to consciously choose NOT to act on it. It's sort of like having a snake in the room -- if you have to have a snake in the room, you need to know where it is and what it is and what you should do to avoid having problems with it. It's a mistaken notion that successful priests and nuns "suppress" their sexual urges, they just understand them and convert that energy into something else -- rather like sports figures who won't have sex the night before a big game because they want to use that energy for a different end. You can't have a kettle without some outlet for the steam. You just have to learn to use the energy for other things, but it's dangerous to not acknowledge where it comes from. __________________ Because the danger is on the right! Proud to be a card-carrying member of the ACLU. | |||
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| To be honest, I just don't like the Catholic Church as an organization. | |||
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| Master Fan ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Joined: Sep 2004
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| I can't say that I disagree. __________________ If the meaning of your marriage can be cheapened by the marriage of two men, how much could it have been worth to begin with? | |||
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| to be honest, i just don't like christianity as an organized religion. or, you know, at all really. | |||
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| Master Fan ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Joined: Sep 2004
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| I can understand why you wouldn't. __________________ If the meaning of your marriage can be cheapened by the marriage of two men, how much could it have been worth to begin with? | |||
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| Master Fan ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Joined: Jul 2000
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| Actually, if you're homosexual you're much less likely to be a child molester. Sorry to inform some of you, it was discovered that 90% of child molesters are in fact straight. __________________ Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well dance. I reached for the stars; and hit the moon. | |||
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Plus, molesters were usually molested themselves, I believe. So a person's sexual preference has nothing to do with it. ![]() | |||
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Of course, in a country where science is subject to religious footnoting ("Intelligent Design", anyone?), it's not surprising that so many policies are based on feelings, not facts. __________________ Because the danger is on the right! Proud to be a card-carrying member of the ACLU. | |||
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