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jediwands 03-08-2018 12:36 PM

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Originally Posted by secretk (Post 93278283)
:lmao: . Same. I hate hugs in general, let alone surprise hug. I let few people in my personal space.

https://qph.fs.quoracdn.net/main-qim...1170ce639f5a4c

:lmao:

secretk 03-08-2018 12:39 PM

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Originally Posted by The Apt (Post 93278315)

Those descriptions fit us so well!

secretk 03-08-2018 12:40 PM

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Originally Posted by The Apt (Post 93278322)

:lmao: . Mhm yeah. That is running joke because ENFPs are like Unicorns :lmao: . They are like so naive that it's a wonder how they can like INTJ and our cynic ways :D. And yet for some reason INTJ kind of accept ENFP's innocent child way and ENFP accept INTJ being blunt :D.

At least this is what they claim in boards. I am not sure that I know ENFPs except this guy at work that is close with M, but man he can get emotional and negative. I am not sure how M handles him :lmao: . I know that I can't handle too much of his intense negative thoughts :D.

jediwands 03-08-2018 01:31 PM

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Originally Posted by secretk (Post 93278360)
Those descriptions fit us so well!

Right? It's incredible. Our faces could be there instead. Dead on in describing us.

jediwands 03-08-2018 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by secretk (Post 93278379)
:lmao: . Mhm yeah. That is running joke because ENFPs are like Unicorns :lmao: . They are like so naive that it's a wonder how they can like INTJ and our cynic ways :D. And yet for some reason INTJ kind of accept ENFP's innocent child way and ENFP accept INTJ being blunt :D.

At least this is what they claim in boards. I am not sure that I know ENFPs except this guy at work that is close with M, but man he can get emotional and negative. I am not sure how M handles him :lmao: . I know that I can't handle too much of his intense negative thoughts :D.

Interesting, so technically ENFPs and INTJs are compatible (differences helps the dynamic) or should be on paper?

jediwands 03-08-2018 01:35 PM

http://platypusdirective.files.wordp...f654351ca7.jpg

:lmao:

jediwands 03-08-2018 01:36 PM

http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-QDTz6B8zAi...Bin%2Blove.jpg

:lmao:

jediwands 03-08-2018 01:41 PM

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secretk 03-09-2018 12:11 PM

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Originally Posted by The Apt (Post 93278914)
Interesting, so technically ENFPs and INTJs are compatible (differences helps the dynamic) or should be on paper?

Yes on paper they seem compatible, but here again I think that gender might matter. ENFP are more into with their feelings than INTJs. As a woman in our society I could tell you that it's not fun when you date a man that is more in tune with his feelings than you :D. It's just not :lmao: .

So maybe ENFP/INTJ works when the INTJ is the male partner. I am not sure that it works when you switch the genders.

jediwands 03-09-2018 12:12 PM

JK Rowling


One of the reasons why I love Harry Potter so much is because it's SO INFJ. I didn't realize this at the time but it is... I've always considered Rowling my hero, both as an author and as a person. I know why. We speak the same language. She touches my Soul.

Here's Rowling confirming she's an INFJ:




This is such an INFJ exchange in the series. It's not a coincidence it's my FAVORITE chapter and moment of the entire series and once again, I didn't realize as much until later when I put everything together...

Dumbledore is in Spirit and Harry "died" but is in Limbo... they are interacting... Harry can move on and join Dumbledore/his parents/friends in the Spirit World or go back and fight Voldemort:

https://i.pinimg.com/736x/78/df/ae/7...-hp-quotes.jpg

secretk 03-09-2018 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by The Apt (Post 93278934)

And so true :lmao: . Today I had to talk as twice as usual because M is not at work so he can't take over some of my tasks. Man I am just so irritable right now. Like you can't even grasp how tired and just not in the mood I am now. I had only one meeting but I had to juggle 5 things in the same time almost the whole day. I had to talk to at least 20 people for different stuff. I had to even read proof emails of newcomers and basically write their thoughts in English so that they could communicate with our German co-workers.

So yeah I do not like to talk to people :D.

secretk 03-09-2018 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by The Apt (Post 93278944)

:lmao: Actually it's the other way around. INTJ are used to understand what's going on. So say that someone stands out or is doing something different. INTJs would try to analyze them. And because they spend so much time analyzing at some point they realize that they started liking the person :D.

One of the serious pitfalls of ENTJ/INTJ interaction (I am not talking only about romantic form, but also about work or friendship) is that they analyze each other all the time. So they get to know each other without actually opening up just because they observe and analyze each other. So then they know stuff about each other.

Everyone else would find this obsessive and sppoky. Like it's weird people to know stuff about you that you have not even thought about yourself. INTJ and ENTJs however do that with each other. Of course because they are NT types they lack any warmth so they might never even share with each other what they know about each other. And even if they do it it would be in a very flat robotic way :D.

secretk 03-09-2018 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by The Apt (Post 93278994)

Btw when you talk to people if they say something does some picture pop up in your mind? For example last week someone mentioned a story about how they wanted to buy sneakers, but their mother told them that they have to use the money to buy shoes for prom. So the moment I heard this I saw the person with white sneakers. I don't know if this was just imagination or I just picked up something.

Does this happen to you?

jediwands 03-09-2018 12:37 PM

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Originally Posted by secretk (Post 93287825)
Yes on paper they seem compatible, but here again I think that gender might matter. ENFP are more into with their feelings than INTJs. As a woman in our society I could tell you that it's not fun when you date a man that is more in tune with his feelings than you :D. It's just not :lmao: .

So maybe ENFP/INTJ works when the INTJ is the male partner. I am not sure that it works when you switch the genders.

:lmao:

But for you, why could you see ENTJ and INTJ working? I mean, I know you don't want to talk feelings but wouldn't you want to throw the male ENTJ around for trying to dominate and not show much feeling at all?

jediwands 03-09-2018 12:39 PM

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Originally Posted by secretk (Post 93287845)
And so true :lmao: . Today I had to talk as twice as usual because M is not at work so he can't take over some of my tasks. Man I am just so irritable right now. Like you can't even grasp how tired and just not in the mood I am now. I had only one meeting but I had to juggle 5 things in the same time almost the whole day. I had to talk to at least 20 people for different stuff. I had to even read proof emails of newcomers and basically write their thoughts in English so that they could communicate with our German co-workers.

So yeah I do not like to talk to people :D.

I can feel it. :D I was ready to PM you just now before reading this asking if something else at work happened that pissed you off and did you want to discuss. I could feel this. :nod:


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