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secretk 02-27-2018 11:21 AM

The Health and Wellness Thread #4: Mental & Physical Health, Personality Types
 
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I thought about how frequently we discuss diet, nutrition, mental and physical health, personality types... Well, why not create a thread where we can openly talk about this stuff on a regular basis if we so desire?


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1. You have to love Everwood. :D
2. You have to be mature and cool.
Who isn't on our board? LOL

secretk 02-27-2018 11:22 AM

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jediwands 02-27-2018 11:32 AM

Thanks for the new one.

secretk 02-27-2018 11:36 AM

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Originally Posted by The Apt (Post 93187890)
Really interesting. Usually I am meeting in unknown spots like a lake with a bench... I know I have never been there before as a human in this life... however, I have had some dreams at my Grandparents old place and I know certain loved ones are in Spirit. It's a mixture but mostly non-physical like the bench or meeting at magnificent areas that I know have to be in the Heavenly realms because nothing so beautiful exists here!

I see. For me even if I see a face it's only the face. I do not even see the body of the person I am talking to. My dreams are really abstract full with symbols, but definitely to not touch reality at all :D. At least not as far as manifestation of the physical world.

secretk 02-27-2018 11:36 AM

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Originally Posted by The Apt (Post 93187903)
:nod: Exactly.

:lmao:

Interesting. Why do you think people suggest?

I find it the classic reaction when they hear about man/woman friendship. Most people assume something more.

jediwands 02-27-2018 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by secretk (Post 93188087)
I see. For me even if I see a face it's only the face. I do not even see the body of the person I am talking to. My dreams are really abstract full with symbols, but definitely to not touch reality at all :D. At least not as far as manifestation of the physical world.

Interesting. When did you start having these dreams?

jediwands 02-27-2018 12:14 PM

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Originally Posted by secretk (Post 93188097)
I find it the classic reaction when they hear about man/woman friendship. Most people assume something more.

What does he look like?

secretk 02-27-2018 12:20 PM

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Originally Posted by The Apt (Post 93188401)
Interesting. When did you start having these dreams?

I do not have good memory for this. I mean don't remember my past :lmao: . I remember impressions, but not details so I can't tell you when they started. It's the only type of dreams I remember having, but my memories do not go that back.

secretk 02-27-2018 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by The Apt (Post 93188410)
What does he look like?

Tall, chubby (like really chubby), with brown hair and sort of green eyes. I do not find him physically attractive. I do not like the typical athletic types, but I also do not like men that have breasts that are bigger than mine. And with him that's kind of an issue. Sorry for the description, but yeah he is not my type physical wise. I expect something a bit more regular looking. Like not perfect body, but also not that much chubbiness.

jediwands 02-27-2018 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by secretk (Post 93188472)
I do not have good memory for this. I mean don't remember my past :lmao: . I remember impressions, but not details so I can't tell you when they started. It's the only type of dreams I remember having, but my memories do not go that back.

Did you know they were spiritual in nature from the start or didn’t really question? Or maybe don’t remember, lol.

jediwands 02-27-2018 02:52 PM

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Originally Posted by secretk (Post 93188505)
Tall, chubby (like really chubby), with brown hair and sort of green eyes. I do not find him physically attractive. I do not like the typical athletic types, but I also do not like men that have breasts that are bigger than mine. And with him that's kind of an issue. Sorry for the description, but yeah he is not my type physical wise. I expect something a bit more regular looking. Like not perfect body, but also not that much chubbiness.

How tall specifically is he?

everwoodfan52 02-27-2018 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by secretk (Post 93188505)
Tall, chubby (like really chubby), with brown hair and sort of green eyes. I do not find him physically attractive. I do not like the typical athletic types, but I also do not like men that have breasts that are bigger than mine. And with him that's kind of an issue. Sorry for the description, but yeah he is not my type physical wise. I expect something a bit more regular looking. Like not perfect body, but also not that much chubbiness.

Is this the man you met in your dream? if so...I would rewind that dream! No man who needs a bra need reply! lol

jediwands 02-27-2018 05:28 PM

^^^ :rotfl:

secretk 02-27-2018 08:43 PM

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Originally Posted by The Apt (Post 93189682)
Did you know they were spiritual in nature from the start or didn’t really question? Or maybe don’t remember, lol.

I was wondering why my dreams are different than the others' but I did not know why. Later on I saw them as spiritual experience.

secretk 02-27-2018 08:46 PM

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Originally Posted by The Apt (Post 93189694)
Makes sense. :nod:

You are so blunt it’s funny. I like it. :lol:

How tall specifically is he?

Yeah, I could be blunt. He is a great friend and I like him as a friend, but yeah physical wise I do not get any affection out of it. It's just it's not there which is why I always say to people - it's friendship. Nothing less, nothing more.

He is like 6'1/6'2 tall. Compared to me (5'3) he is definitely taller :lmao: .

secretk 02-27-2018 08:47 PM

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Originally Posted by everwoodfan52 (Post 93190537)
Is this the man you met in your dream? if so...I would rewind that dream! No man who needs a bra need reply! lol

:lol: Nah. He is my best friend.

everwoodfan52 02-28-2018 07:01 AM

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Originally Posted by secretk (Post 93192733)
:lol: Nah. He is my best friend.

Well then I'd keep him! I have found through the years that chubby people are usually very nice. :)

jediwands 02-28-2018 09:28 AM

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Originally Posted by secretk (Post 93192715)
I was wondering why my dreams are different than the others' but I did not know why. Later on I saw them as spiritual experience.

I thought your process would work that way. :nod:

jediwands 02-28-2018 09:29 AM

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Originally Posted by secretk (Post 93192731)
Yeah, I could be blunt. He is a great friend and I like him as a friend, but yeah physical wise I do not get any affection out of it. It's just it's not there which is why I always say to people - it's friendship. Nothing less, nothing more.

He is like 6'1/6'2 tall. Compared to me (5'3) he is definitely taller :lmao: .

Much, much taller, indeed.

Has he had a girlfriend in the not so distant past?

secretk 02-28-2018 09:32 AM

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Originally Posted by The Apt (Post 93197205)
Much, much taller, indeed.

Has he had a girlfriend in the not so distant past?

As far as I know No. He rarely talks to me about women he likes. That's not a topic we discuss. I have suspected in the past that he had had an affection towards some woman (that he had mentioned for example) but he had never confirmed it.

In fact for the time we know each other (12 years to be exact) I have never seen him with girlfriend. But then again he had seen me with boyfriend only once as well and it's not because I like him. More like I suck at relationships so he might have similar issues with this.

jediwands 02-28-2018 09:36 AM

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Originally Posted by secretk (Post 93197230)
As far as I know No. He rarely talks to me about women he likes. That's not a topic we discuss. I have suspected in the past that he had had an affection towards some woman (that he had mentioned for example) but he had never confirmed it.

In fact for the time we know each other (12 years to be exact) I have never seen him with girlfriend. But then again he had seen me with boyfriend only once as well and it's not because I like him. More like I suck at relationships so he might have similar issues with this.

Interesting. Let's say one of you enter a serious relationship within the next year... do you think the friendship would change and you wouldn't see each other as much or would you still be comfortable around each other, even getting to know the third person?

secretk 02-28-2018 09:39 AM

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Originally Posted by The Apt (Post 93197259)
Interesting. Let's say one of you enter a serious relationship within the next year... do you think the friendship would change and you wouldn't see each other as much or would you still be comfortable around each other, even getting to know the third person?

It depends on how serious the relationship would be. Let's face it - we have conversations that people could have with their significant other. So I assume some of the time we talk to each other would be affected as one of us would have another person in their life.

If he is with a girl and he introduces me that girl I would try to get to know her and reassure her that there is nothing going on between us if she feels threatened. For him I can not say.

jediwands 02-28-2018 10:52 AM

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Originally Posted by secretk (Post 93197273)
It depends on how serious the relationship would be. Let's face it - we have conversations that people could have with their significant other. So I assume some of the time we talk to each other would be affected as one of us would have another person in their life.

If he is with a girl and he introduces me that girl I would try to get to know her and reassure her that there is nothing going on between us if she feels threatened. For him I can not say.

Makes sense. Girl/Guy friendships are sensitive, especially if you have a friendship that goes beyond hi, how are you and you can talk about deeper things like the two of you obviously do. It's too bad the "romance angle" is always around. Too bad one of you are not gay, you wouldn't have this issue at all since people would never question or second guess. :lol:

jediwands 03-01-2018 12:53 AM

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secretk 03-01-2018 10:24 AM

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Originally Posted by The Apt (Post 93197656)
Makes sense. Girl/Guy friendships are sensitive, especially if you have a friendship that goes beyond hi, how are you and you can talk about deeper things like the two of you obviously do. It's too bad the "romance angle" is always around. Too bad one of you are not gay, you wouldn't have this issue at all since people would never question or second guess. :lol:

Exactly! In general he gets along with other female friends as well, but let's just say that for certain topics he is talking only to me.

And yeah if one of us was gay we would not have those issues. Luckily most people get used to the idea quickly and stop suggesting other ideas :lol: .


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