Makes sense.

Do you prefer the area you grew up in over your current area? It's just jobs are better where you currently are?

Nah. He is the opposite. He does not ask me enough. So then he tries to find the best possible way to deal with something without bothering me and this sometimes results badly. He is just so focused on fixing issues fast and quick without bothering me that he does not always stop to think about the consequences. I told him that if he feels that he is in such position, he can talk to me. It's better to discuss it together than for him to do stuff that have consequences.

This is where we differ. He is first act than think. I am first think then act. As a result I can be really slow sometimes and overthink stuff. He can be way fast and not think through things enough basically.

It depends. I do like the fact that where I live it's quiet. If you need to go to the city though you need a car and I do not want to drive.

Where I live is quite noisy, but I have more jobs opportunities and I have public transportation.

Overall neither is perfect for me. Where I grew up fits in for me for retirement. When I am retired I would not want to go to the city that much. Now it's a different matter.