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I am lucky to know men that would do the nice thing without expecting in exchange or flirting. They would just open doors for me, help me with heavy backpack, do me favors that require male expertise or strength and I know that they are not doing it for something because they are involved. So it'a also a matter of what you are looking for as a woman. I am not into the perverted types so obviously around me there are no such men. And if a woman like her expects to see such men around me, she won't succeed. Quote:
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His former roommate was in the same college as me and my best friend. He would always be helpful and he had been relationship since high school. He now married this woman and they even have a kid so it's not like he had some agenda. You know about the co-worker that bought me pepper spray and did not want me to pay. He even offered to beat up the guy for me if the harassing becomes a trend. This guy has girlfriend too. Few months ago I had to do some repair in the bathroom. It's a long story but I did not want to call someone so I wanted to change the shower head hose on my own. However I needed special tool for this and I had no idea how it's called so I asked my co-workers. O not just told me what I need but he bought it for me. He knows that I love sparkling water and sometimes I ask him to get me one when he goes downstairs to smoke. However there is none the last week so he even asked the people in the place when they will have it back for me. We received new monitors and I wanted to have two monitors that are the same so I offered M a deal - to exchange the monitors in a way where both of us have the same. I offered him the newer ones, but he decided to let me have the newer ones and got the older ones. They all open and hold doors for me. They make sure that there is always a chair for me to sit even if means that they will stand still. Overall for the most part I am treated quite well by most of my male co-workers at work. I obviously have issues with some people, but they are the exception. For the most part you could see that they are raised good. __________________
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My boss is so predictable. Remember when I said that his boss came in town last week to complain about what we supposedly aren't doing? Well today, my boss is having a meeting with us to "set down new rules." I knew that this would happen. He's such a tool.
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Now there are idiots everywhere, but I do not imagine a co-worker coming me telling me that they imagine me naked. That's like absurd and it would never happen. We do have more open and free atmosphere compared to what is the usual norm in your country. It seems that we (being more Southern country) are more warm and thus a bit more free and open. Like we do joke around and tease each other, but we try to not cross the line. We try to find the neutral ground and check what the other person is allowing. For example I obviously know how to joke around with K and M the best because we spend more time together. We like spend 40 minutes together every day when we are travelling and we obviously talk more compared to others in the team. I also get to spend more time one on one with both as K and I live pretty close to each other so we spent like 15 minutes walking just the two of us each day. Then when K decides to stay till late (he does do this often) I travel only with M. One on one interaction kind of leads to sometimes personal conversations that go beyond work day and co-workers. I have lunch every day with O as well so obviously we also interact more and spend more time together so we know each other better. As a result I am comfortable around those 3 guys the most in the team, but the rest basically follow their lead and treat me the same way. And M and O kind of moderate the guys in the team when I tell them that I dislike some behavior towards me. __________________
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