A few years ago it was even starting at 4.40 but that was before i started doing shifts.
It feels like doing 2 fulltime jobs but i get help from Tom. We take care of each other whether its prep or reminders or small stuff. Many people say it takes a village, well .... it does. Especially when the normal routine is broken. You learn to rely on spouse/partner, pediatricians, daycare, parents, in-laws or even friends in some cases.
And it’s about how ready you are to change and how well you know yourself and limits and boundaries. And learning to call for help. That’s been a big one fo me.
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