That would explain it!
Yeah he was kind of dull, aside from him being attractive he was kind of sweet but I don't think they would ever last long term
I dont really remember Carrie's scene with Mr Big in this i should watch it, i think it's the one where at the end he finds her in the cafe, and he comes to her to give his opinion on models and in the end he just wants someone to make him laugh... i think, i cant remember