Oh I so agree, Marie and Paulina
Of all the things that could be at the core of the rift between Bellamy and Octavia, the writers chose to make this about his relationship with Echo (or at least put that in the foreground)?
I do share your frustration with Miller. Miller seems to get away with behavior looked down upon if Murphy does the same. Miller is looking out for himself, always backing whoever is in charge at whatever given time in the story. Yet he never faces the same flak for it. Why?
His comment to Jackson, that he loves him bc he is a healer not a fighter comes to mind. Has Miller actually stood up against TPTB to fight for his convictions?
He did back Kane in the revolution against Pike though...
But he also backed the Jahaha/ Clarke coalition in s04.
Aaaagh, there really are no good guys