thanks Kim and Theresa.
I just heard that my dad is setting up a gate outside my door today. So there will be a gate to open and close before even opening my door, so with that extra barrier, hopefully that will prevent an accidental door opening cause you won't be able to open my door without first opening the gate in front which is a reminder of itself!
I do feel bad for my cat (and me) cause my door to the rest of the house cannot ever be left open just to feel connected to the rest of the house now. it kind of feels claustrophobic to always be closed in next month.
Yesterday before I left work, there was this big box with Halloween candy left for the taking and it had chocolate and Twizzlers and sour patch candies... so I totally took a whole bunch in my work bag
and good thing cause I'm starting cramps today so now I need chocolate!!