Of course the media are on their side. It's only in fandom that you can attempt to skew the most obvious universal norms of society.
It is all on The Flash writers, the EPs. They should do something. I mean Westallen are going through hell now with Barry being on trial. A reception or a beautiful re-do after this would be what they deserve and need.
The crossovers do nothing for the Flash ratings. All this charity work boosting Supergirl, Arrow and Legends demos. We deserve a meddle.