To add, that's also why I cringed so much when Madison was so girly with her.
I think Delia appreciated some of the girl stuff overall but if it were up to Madison, she would have washed away all her other traits and made her into the typical girl type. It was night and day seeing Madison's influence versus Amy's influence on Delia. In that short season 3 scene with Delia and Amy, it felt so much more real and natural.