Of course the rumors were heated back then, but it is a huge difference between rumors going around and fans rubbing them under their noses with indiscret questions.. It is nobodys buxiness what is/was going on in thier private life... and I felt uite a while like you did wit avoiding G/R fics because I felt like stepping into their privat life.. but I learned to see the difference between reality and fiction and do like those stories now..