I talked to her early this morning and told her what I read, I think she feels a little better, if anyone really can in a time like this. She was raised straight up hard core catholic and is really struggling. I told her to pray and keep her faith.
Its just such a tragic situation
Mandie I'll pass that link on to her. Thanks. I've been searching for verses too but nothing really seems to be the right one.
Leanne I believe the same thing, God knows whats in your heart, evil vs suffering so I don't understand why it would be taught that it's an automatic one way ticket to hell, like with Military, police etc...