Yeah, it doesn't work in my mind either.
Some people seems so narrow minded. Why would some in the LGBT+ have such a hard time coming out to family/friends if it was a choice? Why is it hard for some LGBT+ to accept and love themself? Why would some in the LGBT+ even kill themself because of who they are if it was a choice? Why can't these people, who thinks it is a choice, start thinking about these things too? That if it was a choice these things wouldn't happen and that being an LGBT+ is actually something that you are born with.
But no, that won't happen, because they are to narrow minded and doesn't want to step out of their precious box to learn something about it..