Yeah, I would be ok with Randy saying Justin had to spread the wings (because that would mean he can still come back to Brian), but then somewhere he said he is married to some NY millionaire or something like that, which made return to Brian almost impossible.
I am simply bit sad that he thought someone else could replace Brian in his life so easily, because I considered their love to be unique and eternal.
Gale said in one interview he thinks Brian is way way down now, I will post the link here and on some convention I heard him he backed Randy with his opinion.

Once Randy even said he thinks Justin is dead now and Gale finished it by saying he has his urn in the back of his car. Thats was quiet morbid.