OK, maybe I should write that in another thread.
I really like Rory and Logan and I think, that they should be together, because they love each other (Rory doesn't love Jess any more) and they will even have a child. However, I've always loved Jess too. I can't just hate one of them. Although Jess definitively has many mistakes too.

As for the question about "bridesmaids incidents" - I just recently saw again a couple of scenes and I was surprised, how much I have forgotten and how different it has seemed now. So, asking people who are pro-Logan seemed the most legitimate.