bekalynn

I would not give a fiancé or a boyfriend another chance for outright cheating. I would give a spouse another shot.

The way I see it is if you cannot be faithful before the marriage you won't be faithful during.

I would give a spouse another shot. Because we took vows.

Of course cheating on a spouse is worse. But I only plan on my marriage to be to death due you part. I would not want to take vows with a cheater.

Mary should not marry him she is being foolish. She has first hand knowledge of his bad character and is doing I think for power.

If she does marry him she should forgive and give him a shot.

Of course it depends on what you constitute cheating if all he had done was kiss her I would forgive that.