I think it is absolutely okay for people to be hurt and bitter about the finale. As a Stefan fan first I am absolutely devastated. Stefan has been depressed for so long, and his happy ending for Julie/Co was to commit suicide... and it happened on his wedding day. I mean come on, of course fans are going to be hurt and pissed off. I get that some fans liked the finale and that is great, I am glad that you can see the positives in it... I can't. I think Stefan deserved far better then what he got in this finale
SC didn't even get a honeymoon....