I hope you both get want you are dreaming of
Given both your concerns that story about Janet J having a baby should be encouraging!
I think the average is 6 months to get pregnant....so that is just the average. I had a friend that took an amount of years to get pregnant ( maybe 3) but then she got pregnant right away after her first....those babies were really close together cause they figured it would take another long time to get pregnant. So you never know.