She did. Rory got it coming. It really annoys me how people see this arc. Jess treated her like ****, she treated Dean like **** and Dean was reasonably really insecure about it all and people act as if he was the one who treated her oh so badly, while Jess is the "perfect boy" who happens to be misunderstood and Rory couldn't hurt a fly... All I can say is, as much as the Dean getting married plot was really, really dumb and unnecessary, I was so happy to see Rory feeling that uncomfortable and bad about it and then choosing him at the end of s4. Full circle.