you are just making sure to get it right
Ekua you will be a fully mature person ready to make a good choice
you will be married for decades...enjoy your last few years of freedom to choose and don't waste too much time angsting... I get that you have to feel some anxiety of course but once you get to a different location I see it happening and it will surprise you
but you do need to go where the pool of available, appropriate men is larger
just sayn"
to our own
Ekua 
make a wish