Yeah, you don't have to agree with me, I was just trying to explain my viewpoint & where it came from seeing as they never really stated it for sure on the show
& it was Connor's soul that allowed her to feel love & to be selfless enough to stake herself when he was born. I never understood that fully either tbh....just because I thought if he had a soul, she must have been feeling it the entire time she was pregnant & not just in that last day, maybe she was & we didn't see it. Or maybe in the Buffyverse you only get a soul a couple days before you're born