I'm still not quite sure what to make of the book, but maybe that's because I've read it as an ebook. I'll definitely do a re-read once I get my copy.

Agreed that it did feel rushed at times, too much things to wrap up and explain and not enough time/space to do so.

Didn't think Katniss chose Peeta just because he was the only person left from 12 either, the quote you posted makes it perfectly clear why she chose him and not Gale. Gale is too much like herself in my opinion and she simply realized, that she needs someone who makes her see things from a different perspective, is her anchor and also gives her hope.

As to the deaths - sorry, but killing Prim was just *censored*. I get why she did it, but come on, it was also harsh. Of course it is right in tune with the whole series, no one is safe. Wouldn't have been surprised if Katniss hadn't survived to be honest.