No one said you should. People are just trying to assure you; not telling you what to think. I, for one, am glad that spirits seem be up even with the typical spoilers, so I don't see anyone trying to get others into lurkdom just because they're worried; I see people staying posetive.

And if people with sources say that the scene is not to be taken as a girl trying anything with Nathan, then I'm going to take their word for it.