Fan Forum - View Single Post - Ferryboats (Derek/Meredith) #17 ~ They were just a guy and a girl in a bar!

Nastyness · 05-14-2007, 01:30 AM

You know I would agree with this statements the Derek was wrong if not for the fact that that Meredith went to him and told him not to give up on her because she was going to be more open and let him in. With the breathing comment he let her know he needed her to be more proactive in the relationship. But whem the incident occured with her father he was there for her and she pushed him away with him trying to be there for her. I would agree it was wrong for him to say something about the woman in the bar to her and that she should be worried after everything she went through if it weren't for the fact that he wanted to support her by going to the funeral and she shut him out, ignored him and told him nothing about what happened with the test.

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But then the next day she's going to act like nothing happened and talk about I'm horny and need a booty call so come over.

So he's supposed to just jump and be like ok? Repeat after me -Bad Trailer Sex Again. No what he did in the promo is absolutely correct. If this was at the beginning when it was just sex between them that would have possibly been ok because it was just sex. But now there are emotions involved and she is wrong. She was taking it lightly and he let her know it wasn't going to fly. The relationship has problems and he wants her to face them with him. He wants her to fight for them as he is. Sex is a fix all for her and it can't fix this problem this time. Don't get me wrong I want them together more than anything.