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Old 02-23-2007, 12:15 PM
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Originally Posted by lemon tart
Lorelai simply never thought Rory needed Chris, because she thought she was all Rory ever needed.
I don't agree with that either. She told Chris in Haunted Leg :

LORELAI: I know she needs her father, I’ve been telling her she needs her father! But she feels like her father bailed on her and she’s mad and hurt, and I can’t change that in three minutes!

I know that was in reference to Chris bailing in ICGS, but I think it also refers to the broader scope. Lorelai knew Rory needed Chris, but she also knew he couldn't be counted on, and she had to compensate for that. Rather than thinking she was all Rory needed, it was more that she was all Rory had.

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Originally Posted by TheJSW
It's also show canon what she said in GO BULLDOGS!. You cannot pick and choose from the canon. Again, I am not justifying Chris neglect. I am simply stating that it's not as important as folks such as yourself make it out to be.
Well, now you're changing it because your original comment was: "Chris did not neglect Rory because Rory HAD LORELAI". Now you're saying he did neglect her, but it's not as important as we think.

And I'm not picking and choosing from the canon -- Lorelai didn't deny what Chris was saying in GB, she tried to temper it by telling him Rory was always a self-starter, but that he did still have time.

ETA: The DC is up finally - Lorelai and Mrs Kim. And Luke/Kirk.
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